✨Upgrade the Relationship with your Family✨

Old Paradigm Family Energy & Hierarchy Angry family

Old Paradigm or 3rd Density hierarchy describes a system that organizes or ranks things, often according to power or importance. Family dynamics are the patterns of relating, or interactions, between family members. Each family system is unique and its own dynamics depending on the level and type of hierarchy at play.

Shifting from 3rd density reality to 4th density

If you are excited to shift from this 3rd density reality to 4th density reality, which is a very different paradigm. You’re desire and willingness to change must be greater then keeping things at status quo. Your dedication to let go of and Detach from Definitions and beliefs that are not in alignment with a 4th density reality, are paramount in order to integrate the new beliefs.

family-treeLoving Communication is key!  Make an agreement to communicate freely with one another, as well as listen effectively. Listening allows you to learn more about your family members’ thoughts and personalities, and communicating allows you to express yourself to relieve frustrations and other emotions.
Try never to interrupt, instead, listen until the other person is finished, then relate how you feel. This effective type of communication prevents and solves arguments, keeping the family relationship healthy.

The purpose of communication

The purpose of communication is to create a reflection that shows you what needs to be understood to be more of who you are. Communing with and relating to others mirrors back to you what you are putting out. The higher the frequency you put out the clearer and more harmonious the reflection coming back will be. The more aware you are of what you are putting out and what is coming back the more you and the others involved will benefit. If the other person is also aware, then it will increase the benefit and increase the frequency even more.

A mutual agreement for conscious clear heart-centered communion with each other produces optimal results. A good mantra to use while practicing this is; “Circumstances don’t matter, state of being matters.”  Make a commitment to yourself to do your very best to uphold your energetic frequency as high as possible in every now-moment.

Remember You Are Mirrors For Each Other. Mirroring to others their beautiful infinite nature by being aware of your own. Remember that the purpose of relationships is to act as reflections for each other so all involved can be more of who they are.

Qualities of 4th Density Relationships

4th Density is based on connection to Source, integration with others, and reintegration of your personal identity that you have broken into different parts.

  • Relationships are based on integration and expansion.
  • Communication is fully open and completely honest with yourself and with others, because you know that all parties in the relationship are fully self empowered and excited to hear about and integrate any issues that are out of alignment and may be causing pain.
  • Love is unconditional and not withheld to meet needs and conceal fears.
  • Non-conformity, differences, and full self expression are celebrated. You are excited to discover who others truly are and want to experience their desires, gifts, and talents and see them being shared with others.
  • Everyone in the relationship encourages each other to follow their highest excitement with no expectations, control, manipulation, or needs placed on them.
  • You realize each moment is entirely new and you are open to what it brings, whatever that may be.

Healing and Resolving Family Issues

Let go of the need to change anybody else

i-love-you-just-the-way-you-areIt’s not your job to change anybody else…just accepting this fact in your relations with other humans is
very important. You cannot change other people. You love them the way they are or you don’t. You accept them the way they are or you don’t. To try to change them to fit what you want them to be, is stressful for all involved.

Whatever arises, move your attention from your mind to your heart. Let go of your thoughts, become present, feel with your heart, use your intuition.Turn the focus away from what is coming through your physical senses into your brain and tune into what is coming in through your sixth sense. Become aware of what is around you as energy. Use your whole body as a receiver. Notice the different energetic fields and really tune into them.

All family healing start with you and by the power of your example. Be present and let go of judgements…Focus on treating every family member equally, regardless of their age or perceived hierarchy, with kindness, gentleness, loving support, and respect… including yourself.

Remember; if I can do it, so can you!

Sandra