The Importance of Being Yourself In Relationships
Just being yourself is one of the biggest fear of humans. We have learned to live our life trying to satisfy other people’s demands. We have learned to live by other people’s points of view because of the fear of not being accepted and of not being good enough for someone else.
You need to be honest with yourself, and honest with everyone else. Project what you feel, how you really are, and don’t pretend to be what you are not. It’s as if you are in a market: You are going to sell yourself, and you are also going to buy. In order to buy, you want to see the quality of what you are going to get. But in order to sell, you need to show others what you are. When you buy something you don’t need, it ends up in the garage. It’s the same in a relationship.