✨ How to eliminate Control & Manipulation in all Relationships ✨
First of all it is important to distinguish healthy social influence from psychological manipulation. In most constructive relationships there is a healthy influence or cross-polination between the two parties. In controlling relationships there is use of manipulation for the individual benefit. The one in control deliberately creates an environment of co-dependency and imbalance of power to serve his or her agenda.
It always boils down to loving yourself more. When you don’t love yourself and you have low Self esteem you are an easy target for anyone who wants to act out control and manipulation in relationships.
If you can tap into that unlimited source of Self love and cultivate a healthy level of Self Worth and appreciation, you will recognize control and manipulation from a mile away!
Remember, everything happens for a reason and even the so called bad relationships or challenging times in your live are great opportunities OPPORTUNITIES to learn, to grow, to expand in order to reach a level of mastery.
Whatever situation you are in right now, know that it’s the perfect opportunity to become clear about what you DO want in life and that you have the power within to shift and change directions!
It’s NEVER too late
The trick is NOT to get dis-couraged by past experiences… remember every day is the first day of the rest of your life and it’s NEVER too late to work on your own happiness!!!
It’s important to Keep your heart open during practice, even in the face of great challenges Drop all fear… fear of failure, fear of rejection, fear of judgement!
Let go of control and expectation, and Become as flexible as you can in every now-moment….. don’t let other people pull you into their storm, if possible pull them into your peace
and if that does not work, just walk away from the negativity with the clarity that you choose to be in a positive field of energy.
Know that when you truly set the intention to improve your own frequency and the quality of your life, you will continue to grow, expand and fine tune all your relationships, including the one with yourself.
Enjoy the enfolding, piece by piece by piece, as it begins to take shape. That’s the feeling of being in control of your frequency and the joy of having your hands in the clay when you are creating this masterpiece that is your life!!
Remember; if I can do it, so can YOU!